Real connection starts with clear expectations.

What Amoetta does

You create a profile, choose who you want to meet, and send likes with notes. A conversation opens when you both like each other. Messaging is free once you match. Optional Plus passes add allowances and a likes reveal; they never auto-renew. Check pricing and launch availability for the current offer.

Photo checks have limits

A live selfie is compared with profile photos, with a separate check that the selfie is a live photo of one person. This is a photo check, not an identity, age or background check. A badge cannot prove someone's intentions or guarantee a safe meeting.

Warnings and choices

Scam Shield flags message patterns such as requests for gift cards, investment pitches or pressure to move to another app. It can miss things. You can block or report someone, and you should never send money to a match. Read the dating safety guide before meeting.

A first plan you both choose

Date Duet is a free two-person planning tool. Share a link and compare broad preferences for a public first date. It does not make a booking or promise a match. Holidays Together offers voluntary seasonal plans for friends or dating. Amoetta does not host or organise events.

Your information and support

Who you want to see stays private. Your gender appears on your profile. Personal data is not sold or used for advertising. The privacy policy explains the data used by the service, including photo checks and retention. Use contact and support for account or privacy questions, and read the community guidelines before joining.